Bisexuality: Definition, Myths, and Importance of Recognition

What is Bisexuality?

The term “bisexual” describes a person who is emotionally, romantically, and/or sexually attracted to more than one gender. This means that attraction is not limited to a single gender but can include men, women, and/or non-binary people. Bisexuality is a valid and diverse sexual orientation, and attraction can manifest in different ways and to varying degrees for each gender.

Understanding Bisexuality: Beyond Misconceptions

Bisexuality is often misunderstood and subject to many myths. Here are some key points to better understand it:

Attraction to more than one gender

The fundamental definition is attraction to more than one gender. This does not necessarily mean an equal or simultaneous attraction to all genders. The intensity, nature, and frequency of attraction can vary over time and among individuals.

No mandatory preference

A bisexual person does not need to have a 50/50 preference for men and women, nor be attracted to all genders in the same way. Attraction is a spectrum, and each bisexual person experiences it differently.

Independent of current relationship

A bisexual person’s sexual orientation does not change based on who they are in a relationship with. A bisexual person in a relationship with someone of a specific gender remains bisexual.

Bisexuality is not a phase

Bisexuality is not a phase or a transitional stage towards homosexuality or heterosexuality. It is a stable and lasting sexual orientation for many people.

Visibility and erasure (Biphobia)

Bisexual people often face erasure (biphobia), where their orientation is denied, minimized, or considered invalid, both by the heterosexual community and sometimes by the LGBTQ+ community.

Common Myths about Bisexuality and their Deconstruction

It is important to deconstruct certain myths:

“Bisexuals are indecisive”

False. Bisexuality is a distinct orientation, not an inability to choose.

“Bisexuals are more unfaithful”

False. Sexual orientation has no bearing on a person’s faithfulness.

“Bisexuals are attracted to everyone”

False. Attraction is selective, as with any other orientation. Being attracted to more than one gender does not mean being attracted to all people of those genders.

“Bisexuality does not exist”

False. It is a recognized sexual orientation experienced by millions of people worldwide.

The Importance of Recognition and Support

Supporting bisexual people is crucial for their well-being and visibility. This involves:

Validating their identity

Accepting and respecting their sexual orientation without questioning it.

Using inclusive language

Avoiding assumptions about people’s sexual orientation and using terms that recognize the diversity of attractions.

Fighting biphobia

Challenging myths and stereotypes about bisexuality.

Providing a safe space

Creating environments where bisexual people feel safe to be themselves.

Bisexuality is a beautiful and essential part of human diversity. By recognizing and celebrating this orientation, we contribute to a more just and inclusive world for all.