Receiving or Traveling: Managing Gay Hookups Online
Definition : When you don't live alone, it's difficult to receive. However, traveling to someone else's place for the first few times is also often delicate.
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Receiving or Traveling: Dilemmas of Gay Hookups
How to manage the choice between receiving and traveling for a gay hookup?
When you don’t live alone, it’s difficult to receive. However, traveling to someone else’s place for the first few times is also often delicate. Questions like “Who will I meet?” or “What if they hold me captive or rob me?” can arise.
There’s no need to be paranoid. The real question to ask when traveling is rather “will they open the door for me?”, because after several “rabbits” (no-shows), this fear will become predominant and you will gradually refuse to travel.
Tips for Receiving a Partner for a Gay Hookup
It’s important to receive well: if your home is cluttered with food wrappers up to the ceiling, refrain! The opposite is also crucial: if you are in a relationship and your home is absolutely spotless, prefer to put a sheet or a towel on a corner of a sofa for your activities. Women have a knack for noticing the slightest wrinkle on a bed!
Very important: if you are receiving and you don’t live alone, make sure to specify that the partner should not wear too strong perfume or deodorant, or a trendy shower gel with a strong scent. Odor can also play tricks on you if your partner is observant!
Tips for Traveling Safely for a Gay Hookup
When traveling, never leave without having obtained a phone number and without them having sent you the address by SMS. It’s more practical, it assures you that they might not be a “rabbit-planter” (no-show), and you have a trace.
A paranoid person might reply: “with a stolen phone, the guy does what he wants and can still set an ambush.” We would reply that if he is connected to the site, there is an IP trace, which allows this person to be found. The paranoid person would retort: “Yes, but you will only trace back to the computer, not the person. And what if it’s with the same stolen smartphone?”
We would then reply to the paranoid person that they will always be right and that hookups might not be for them. A simple solution is to meet in a neutral place like a cafe, where an ambush seems impossible.
The Pleasure and Risks of Gay Online Dating
The pleasure of gay online dating also includes taking a certain risk (that of the “rabbit,” of falling on someone who lied about their physique or age, etc.). It is also the risk of being pleasantly surprised. This excitement when leaving your home to dive into the unknown provides a sensation that will excite your senses even more. And as soon as there is sexual intercourse, you will see that your senses will not let you down and that it is even better!
For your beginnings, prefer to meet in a cafe first, it will reassure you. If you are in a relationship, be careful when receiving. Only welcome if you “feel” the guy well. If you have a strange feeling during the chat or a doubt, refrain, because your sixth sense is almost always right. And only travel with a phone number and an address that you have verified online to scout the location. Trust your sixth sense there too.