Too Strict Search Criteria: Find Dates on Gay Chats

Too Strict Search Criteria: Why You’re Not Getting Dates on Gay Chats

Certainly, we all have our preferences, whether it’s for the type of encounters we want to have or the profile of the guys we wish to meet. However, overly precise criteria can prevent you from finding happiness on gay chats.

What are unrealistic search criteria on gay chats?

You’re looking for a slim guy, with nice but not overly muscular physique, fair skin, handsome, radiant, with class, money, and always available for you. Don’t bother looking, because you’re searching for George Clooney, hoping he’ll also make you coffee and give you a blowjob! You won’t find him, because he’s not registered on the site.

Why can overly precise criteria hinder your encounters?

Remember our initial advice: on your profiles, you should indicate what you like and what you’re looking for, not the other way around! Negativity is not sexy, and you will inevitably come across as someone who is frankly arrogant.

How to optimize your profile on a gay chat for more success?

Let’s take the example of a guy who will never get a date and will quickly become frustrated: “18/30s only, face pic in 1st message, no queens, no hair, no big guys, no old guys, and only next to my place! You come, I suck you, and that’s it!”

His search isn’t complicated, because he wants a young guy for a direct hookup without fuss. However, phrased as he does, no one will respond, especially with such a condescending tone for a bottom. You’ll understand: if you’re not getting any dates, it’s not the site or its users that are flawed, but your behavior that might not be adequate. It’s not about changing your criteria, but about changing how you present them.