Milking (Traire): Definition, Practice, and Pleasure
Definition : When you see the verb traire (to milk) in chat, it will obviously not be about dairy products, even if there will be pure sensations.
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What is Milking (Traire in french gay slang)?
When you see the verb traire (to milk) in chat, it will obviously not be about dairy products, even if there will be pure sensations. Milking is done with a good mouth and aided by a hand. It’s an effective way to extract a maximum of cum to consume on the spot for the big fans of sperm that we are!
Is Milking just a simple handjob?
But milking is not just a simple way of talking about handjobs and cumshots: it is also a practice that can be BDSM. There will then be a submissive who will undergo a “pleasant torture” since they will be handjobbed in a way that they cannot avoid ejaculation. There are therefore milking machines (milkers) that will make the experience very pleasant or unpleasant depending on the person.
It is one of the rare practices where the submissive is truly at the center of the hookup. Very often, this sexual practice is framed by role-playing games, with the submissive playing the role of someone who does not want to give their sperm and who will therefore have to be forcibly extracted!
How to practice Milking?
There are milkers of various shapes and sizes. In stores, the most common are fake vaginas or anuses that vibrate from the inside, which we would respond are not milkers at all! It is therefore difficult to equip oneself for this type of encounter, and the simplest way is still to be on the lookout for people practicing milking who can tell you where to find good equipment. It is a significant investment, but you can quickly make it profitable given the liters of sperm you can recover!
Otherwise, keep in mind that many “lopes” (slang for skilled oral sex practitioners) are there to milk you manually and some have a real gift for it. Note that in French, the translation is “traire une bite”.