PLANJUSJoin the Bareback Chat

Submissive: Definition and Understanding of Submission

Definition : Submissive

Keywords
submission, Dom, Master, pleasure, devotion, bareback, trust
Topics
Vocabulary of BDSM Practices, Sexual Roles and Archetypes, Humiliation & Degradation
Updated

Read in French → Soumis(e)

Illustration for the term “Submissive” – PLANJUS glossary

What is a Submissive?

Submissive

Being a submissive is not being a victim. It’s quite the opposite. It’s the most radical act of power there is: that of consciously choosing to have none left. It’s looking a Dom in the eyes and telling them: “Take me. Make me your thing, your hole, your toy. My body and my mind belong to you.”

How does submission manifest mentally?

Submission begins in the mind. It’s that delicious moment when you decide to turn off your brain. No more decisions, responsibilities, the anguish of choice. You are nothing more than a body awaiting orders, a receptacle ready to be used. Your only goal is to serve the pleasure of the other, and it is in this servitude that you will find your own pleasure.

How is submission expressed physically?

Physically, it’s obvious. It’s kneeling without being asked. It’s presenting your ass, ready to be taken, inspected, used. It’s accepting the weight of their body on you, the pain mingling with pleasure, the sensation of being completely invaded.

Is submission continuous?

It’s a permanent offering. You are not submissive only during sex. You are when you serve them a drink, when you watch them eat, when you wait, at their feet, for them to deign to look at you. Every second is an opportunity to prove your devotion.

What is the reward of the submissive?

Service is a drug. Seeing them cum thanks to you, thanks to your body that you offered them, is a deeper satisfaction than any orgasm you could have on your own. You become the instrument of their pleasure, and that is the greatest honor.

And when we talk about bareback sex, submission takes on its full meaning. It’s the ultimate surrender. It’s accepting their cock inside you without any barrier, without protection. It’s feeling their warm cum pour deep into your insides, a liquid mark of possession, the ultimate proof that you belong to them body and soul.

What is the importance of trust in submission?

This trust is not given to just anyone. A true submissive knows that to surrender to this extent, you need a Master who knows and respects the limits that were set long before the first slap. Safety, even in the dirtiest of plans, is what allows you to completely let go.

In summary, what does it mean to be a submissive?

In short, being submissive is being the damn director of your own downfall. It’s a power game where you win by losing, where your greatest strength is accepting your own weakness.