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Obedience (Obéissance): Definition and Role in D/s Relationships

Definition : Obedience is not a suggestion; it is your only reality. It is the fundamental principle of your existence as a slave.

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Obedience, Obéissance, submission, D/s, Master, slave, power play, fantasy, control
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Vocabulary of BDSM Practices, Humiliation & Degradation
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Obedience, Obéissance

What is Obedience in a D/s Context?

Obedience is not a suggestion; it is your only reality. It is the fundamental principle of your existence as a slave. Your will does not exist; only your Master’s matters.

What is the Nature of Obedience?

You do not obey to avoid punishment. You obey because it is your nature, your function. It is like breathing.

How is Obedience Manifested?

Obedience is instantaneous, without question, without hesitation. The order is given, the action is executed. The ultimate test of your obedience is the order to prepare to receive him. You comply, you get into position, you wait.

Physical and Mental Obedience

Your body obeys as well as your mind. It opens for him, it accepts his warmth, it receives his semen without contracting. This is perfect submission, the fusion of mental and physical obedience.