Orgasm Control (BDSM): Definition, Frustration, and Submission
Definition : Orgasm control is the purest affirmation of one's power over you. Your most intimate pleasure does not belong to you.
- Keywords
- Orgasm Control, Orgasm Denial, BDSM, Master, submission, pleasure, frustration, edging
- Topics
- Vocabulary of BDSM Practices, Humiliation & Degradation
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What is Orgasm Control?
Orgasm control is the purest affirmation of one’s power over you. Your most intimate pleasure does not belong to you. He can give it to you, deny it to you, or make you brush against it for hours.
Why is Orgasm Control so Powerful?
Being kept in a constant state of desire, of frustration, makes you weak, pleading, and entirely focused on him. Your body becomes a desiring machine, and he is the only one who can turn it off. And when he empties himself into you, it is the confirmation of your status: he has the right to cum, you do not.
What is the Difference Between Orgasm Control and Edging?
This practice cannot truly be considered edging since, in the context of forced masturbation, the goal is to bring about the strongest orgasm for an abundant ejaculation of cum. In the context of orgasm control, your Master may simply refuse to let you empty your balls, as you are his cum dump.