Humiliation & Degradation

Humiliation & Degradation: 112 PLANJUS glossary terms and guides, including Anal Cum Spitting (BDSM), Anal Hook, Ball Busting.

• Anal Cum Spitting (BDSM) — Anal Cum Spitting is the act of spitting out sperm received in the ass. It's a practice that may seem disgusting, but it is very exciting for those who enjoy games of soiling and humiliation.
• Anal Hook — The Anal Hook, or anal hook, is an instrument of power used in certain BDSM practices. It is not a toy for beginners, but a cold metal object designed to exert absolute control over the submissive.
• Ball Busting — Ball Busting is a BDSM practice that involves hitting, squeezing, or applying pressure to a partner's testicles.
• Ball Gag — The Ball Gag, or ball-gag, is a classic BDSM accessory. Its design is simple: a ball, usually made of silicone or rubber, connected to a leather strap.
• BDSM Flogger — The Flogger, or Cat o' Nine Tails, is an iconic instrument of punishment, inherited from naval and corporal punishments.
• BDSM Mummification — Mummification, in the BDSM context, is a practice of bondage and sensory deprivation where a person's body is entirely wrapped, usually with plastic film, bondage tape, or bandages.
• BDSM Slave Contract — The slave contract is the sacred text of your dehumanization. It's not a game; it's a document that formalizes the transfer of ownership of yourself to your Master.
• BDSM Training — Training is the process by which a Master transforms a human being into a perfect slave. It is not education; it is programming.
• Bit Gag — The Bit Gag is an accessory that takes humiliation a step further than a simple gag. Inspired by the bit used for horses, it consists of a bar, often made of metal or hard rubber, that the submissive must bite.
• Blackmail Fetish — The Blackmail Fetish is the ultimate psychological power play. The submissive voluntarily gives their Dominant "compromising material": nude photos, videos, intimate confessions, sensitive professional information.
• Blood Play — Blood Play is a sacred and dangerous territory. It is the crossing of the last frontier, that of the skin.
• Bondage — Bondage is the art of tying up one's partner. It is an SM practice that plays on domination, submission, and trust.
• Bondage Rig — A Bondage Rig is not just a simple set of ropes. It is a structure, a frame, often made of metal or wood, specifically designed to completely immobilize a body.
• Branding BDSM — Branding is an extreme BDSM practice that involves marking a partner's skin with a heated object.
• Breath Control (Étouffement) in BDSM — Breath control, or 'étouffement', is a BDSM practice that involves depriving one's partner of oxygen to intensify orgasm.
• Breath Play (Breath Control) — Breath play is the ultimate power game. It's not about your ass or your mouth, but about the air that keeps you alive.
• Breathplay — Breathplay is a flirtation with the edge. It's the act of entrusting your Dominant with the most vital thing you possess: your breath.
• Bukkake — Bukkake is a Japanese word meaning "to splash." So, it's no surprise that this practice has its place in barebacking!
• Bunnies BDSM — "Bunnies" are the new recruits, the fresh meat arriving in the arena, eyes wide open and asses itching with desire.
• Cane (Rattan Cane) — The cane (or rattan cane) is an instrument of punishment. There is no room for ambiguity.
• Cattle Prod (BDSM) — The Cattle Prod is an object that inspires primal fear. Designed to direct livestock with electric shocks, its use in BDSM is the epitome of dehumanization and domination through terror.
• Caviar Plan — The "caviar plan" is a term in sexual slang that refers to excrement fetishism, also known as coprophilia or scatophilia.
• CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) — CBT, or 'Cock and Ball Torture', is a BDSM practice that involves inflicting pain on male genitals.
• Champagne Plan — The "champagne plan" is, like the "golden shower", an expression used to designate a uro plan (urine fetishism).
• Chastity Cage (BDSM) — The chastity cage is one of the most powerful psychological control tools in the BDSM arsenal.
• Clebs (Dog Mentality) — So, "clebs" is a word you'll often come across in gay ads, and you need to know how to decipher it.
• CNC (Consensual Non-Consensual) — CNC is the most beautiful and dangerous of lies. It's a scenario, a play in which you are the only two actors, built on the strongest of foundations: total, informed, and enthusiastic consent, negotiated long before the first door slams shut.
• Consent Negotiation — The consent negotiation scene is the most cerebral and intimate form of unveiling. It's a role-play where the act of negotiating itself becomes the source of excitement.
• Crucifixion Play (BDSM) — Basic rope suspension is already a game that forgives no mistakes. The extreme version is playing Russian roulette because it involves suspending someone unconscious, who can no longer give their safeword or signal a problem.
• Cuckolding — Cuckolding is not a story of infidelity; it's a spectacle of impotence and absolute power, orchestrated for the twisted pleasure of the one being cheated on.
• Cul à honorer — "Cul à honorer" (ass to be honored) is a term often encountered in the presence of a good passive slut.
• Cum Eater (Sperm and Piss) — There is a hunger that is not satisfied by simple penetration, however intense it may be. It is a need to go beyond the skin, to seek a connection or a form of power so total that it involves the ingestion of the very essence of the other.
• Cum-Stained Boxer & Underwear — A cum-stained boxer or cum-stained underwear refers to an undergarment (boxer briefs or briefs) into which a person has ejaculated.
• D/s (Dominance and Submission) — Forget everything you think you know about power. In a D/s relationship, we're not talking about brute force, but about an exchange, a consensual and infinitely more exciting power play.
• Deepthroat — Deepthroat, or "fond de gorge" as it is sometimes called in a rarer slang, is a form of fellatio where the penis is inserted as deeply as possible into the partner's mouth and throat.
• Definition of Punishment — Punishment is a training tool. It's not anger, it's mechanics.
• Definition of Sought Punishment (Funishment) — In this context, sought punishment is a pleasure, the most delicious of manipulations. As the submissive, you are secretly pulling the strings.
• Depraved Plan — A "depraved plan" is an umbrella term for a sexual encounter that goes beyond the ordinary, exploring fantasies considered "dirty" or "perverse" by common morality.
• Dressage (Training) — Dressage is the process by which a Master transforms a human being into a perfect slave. It is not education; it is programming.
• Drowning Play (BDSM) — Drowning play is the most dangerous form of "breath play." It is no longer about controlling breathing but suppressing it with water.
• Ego Death (Mort de l'ego) — Ego Death and Identity Erasure are not a scene—they are a demolition project. It is the most extreme evolution of psychological domination, a long-term process aimed at completely dismantling a submissive's original identity.
• Erotic Asphyxiation — Erotic asphyxiation, also known as asphyxiophilia, is a dangerous practice that involves voluntarily depriving oneself of oxygen to intensify sexual sensations, often with the aim of achieving a more intense orgasm.
• Erotic Humiliation — Erotic humiliation is a striptease of the soul. The goal is not to hurt you, but to free you from the weight of your own dignity.
• Eunuch Fetish and Nullification (Nullo) — This fantasy is one of the deepest and most disturbing. It is the desire to transcend gender by getting rid of what biologically defines it.
• Extreme Bodily Fluid Play — Here, we cross the last taboos of intimacy, where even the most open-minded turn back. We are no longer talking about pee or semen, but the ultimate bodily excretions.
• Extreme Body Modification — Here, we are no longer talking about tattoos or piercings. We enter the realm of permanent possession, of the indelible mark.
• Extreme Sex Plan Encounter — An extreme plan refers to a sexual encounter or intimate exploration that pushes conventional boundaries, often characterized by high physical or psychological intensity.
• Fear Play — Fear Play, or "game of fear," is the most powerful aphrodisiac. It's not about scaring you; it's about making you believe you are scared, triggering the primal danger response in your body, while knowing, deep down, that you are perfectly safe.
• Fear Play (with Real Threat) — There is a type of fear-based sex where the threat is simulated, and everyone knows it's a game.
• Financial Slave (Moneyslave) — Being a financial slave has nothing to do with being a "sugar daddy". A sugar daddy exchanges money for company.
• Fire Play — Fire Play is a pact with instinct. It's the pleasure of submitting your most primal fear to your Master's will.
• Fist Fucking (FF) — Fist fucking is the art of introducing the hand, or even the forearm, into a partner's anus or vagina.
• Flipfuck (Flip) — Flipfuck is simple: it's the act of exchanging roles during the same sexual encounter. There is no longer a defined dominant or submissive, no assigned top or bottom.
• Flogger BDSM — The flogger is much more than a simple whip; it is an instrument of sensual percussion and psychological punishment.
• Foot Fucking — Foot fucking is an extreme sexual practice that involves inserting a foot into the anus. It is a form of anal dilation even rarer and more difficult than fist fucking.
• Forced Feminization — Forced Feminization is an assassination. That of the man you once were.
• Forced Orgasm Definition — Forced Orgasm is the theft of your intimacy. It is proof that even your most personal pleasure does not belong to you.
• Gag (Bâillon) — The gag is an instrument designed to obstruct the mouth and prevent speech, but its function in BDSM goes far beyond simple silence.
• Gagging in BDSM — A "gag" is an object used in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism) practices to obstruct a partner's mouth, preventing them from speaking and limiting their actions.
• Gaslighting — Gaslighting, in this game, is the most extreme form of possession. It is a consensual act where you give your Master not only your body, but also your reality.
• Gaver — In the bareback lexicon, "gaver" is a raw term to describe the act of ejaculating abundantly inside one's partner, whether anally ("gaver un cul" - to stuff an ass) or orally ("gaver une gorge" - to stuff a throat).
• Hard Plan — A "hard plan" is the opposite of a soft plan. It's a sexual encounter that goes off the beaten path, including practices considered "extreme" or "unconventional".
• Hazing Play — Hazing play is a fantasy of submission and humiliation. The principle is to be hazed by one or more guys, like in the army or in prestigious schools.
• Hood — The hood is an instrument of depersonalization and sensory deprivation. Completely enveloping the head, it erases the identity of the wearer, transforming them into an anonymous object, a blank canvas onto which the dominant can project their desires.
• Human Ashtray (Cendrier Humain) — The Human Ashtray is the first level of objectification. Your mouth, designed for pleasure, for sucking and swallowing, is redefined.
• Human Furniture — Becoming a piece of furniture is to achieve a state of total submission and silence. You are no longer an animal that feels; you are an object that supports.
• Humiliation (Bareback) — Humiliation is a stripping of the soul. Its purpose is not to hurt you, but to dissolve your pride, your ego, until only the raw and animal need to be used remains.
• Humiliation (Degradation) — Humiliation is not an insult; it is a purification. It is the art of stripping you of everything you believe yourself to be – your name, your pride, your ego – to reveal only your most essential truth: you are a thing, a body, a hole.
• Instrumentalization of the Unconsenting — The principle is simple: using a normal person, who is unaware of anything, as a prop in your game.
• Jizzing (Bareback) — In the vocabulary of bareback, "jizzing" is a direct and raw synonym for "ejaculating". One "jizzes juice" or "yop" to say that one ejaculates their semen.
• Juice Vat (Bareback) — In bareback slang, a "juice vat" is a metaphorical expression to describe an anus (or sometimes a mouth) perceived as a receptacle intended to be filled with sperm, often by multiple partners, and to retain it.
• Knifeplay — Knifeplay is the ultimate thrill. The cold blade gliding over your warm skin is the promise of absolute trust and controlled danger.
• Master/slave (M/s) — The Master/slave relationship is the embodiment of TPE. These are not roles, but identities.
• Medical Play BDSM — Medical Play is a violation of the deepest intimacy. You are no longer a partner; you are a patient, a body to be examined, a case to be studied.
• Mental Conditioning — Conditioning is the art of engraving one's will directly into your flesh, bypassing your conscious mind.
• Mise à Dispo — "Mettre à dispo" or "mise à dispo" (literally "to make available" or "made available") is an expression meaning that a passive person makes themselves available to one or more active partners.
• Need to Serve — The "Need to Serve" is a hunger, a thirst that can only be quenched by total surrender to another.
• Needle Play (BDSM) — Needle Play is a meditation through pain. Each sterile needle that pierces the surface of your skin is a point of intense concentration, a prick that anchors your mind in your body and empties it of all other thoughts.
• Nose Hook (Crochet de Nez) — The nose hook is a bondage accessory inserted into the nostrils, applying pressure to the septum.
• Obedience (Obéissance) — Obedience is not a suggestion; it is your only reality. It is the fundamental principle of your existence as a slave.
• Objectification — Objectification is a form of liberation. It is the act of stripping yourself of your humanity to become an object, a mere thing at the service of your Master's pleasure.
• Orgasm Control (BDSM) — Orgasm control is the purest affirmation of one's power over you. Your most intimate pleasure does not belong to you.
• Ownership Mark — An ownership mark is a physical and often permanent symbol intended to signify a power and possession relationship between a dominant and a submissive.
• Pain Play — Pain Play is a conversation. Every hit, every bite, every pressure is a question.
• Ping Pong Ball Gag — The ping pong ball gag is a type of improvised gag that, as its name suggests, uses one or more ping pong balls to fill the submissive's mouth.
• Piss Play (Urolagnia) — Piss Play, or uro, is not a simple perversion. It is the baptism of your downfall, the rite that washes away your dignity to consecrate you as a thing.
• Possession — Possession is not a feeling, it's a fact. It's the moment when the concept of "you" ceases to exist, to be replaced by the concept of "theirs".
• Riding Crop (Cravache) Definition and Usage — The riding crop, or "cravache" in French, is a short, rigid instrument traditionally used in equestrianism to guide the horse.
• Rigger — A Rigger is an architect of desire. They do not use ropes simply to tie, but to prepare a body, to make it available.
• Rope Bunny — A Rope Bunny is a body that calls for rope. It's an insatiable hunger for the sensation of fiber that constrains, binds, and draws paths on the skin.
• Scat Play (Coprophilia) — This is the last taboo, the ultimate frontier of submission. Scat Play is not about dirtiness, but about absolute devotion.
• Sensory Deprivation — Sensory deprivation is the creation of a void to better fill it. With a blindfold over your eyes, earplugs in your ears, you are plunged into a void where the outside world no longer exists.
• Service Submissive — Service Submissive
• Sexual Abattage — The term "abattage" (slaughter/culling) refers to a sexual practice where a person (often passive, called "lope" or "slut" in this context) has sex with multiple partners at a very rapid pace, with minimal interaction and foreplay.
• Shaving Play — Shaving play, yes it exists! It's a fetish that's not as rare as it seems.
• Shibari — Shibari is the art of possession by rope. It's not just about tying, but about reshaping a body, constraining it to reveal its true nature: that of an art object.
• Slave — If submission is a contract, slavery is an act of ownership. A slave is no longer a person playing a role.
• Spanking — Spanking is simply a spank, which is not necessarily linked to BDSM, although there will always be a dominant and a submissive.
• Sperm Fetishism — Sperm fetishism goes far beyond a simple preference for barebacking; it's a fascination with the substance itself, an obsession with its warmth, taste, texture, and smell.
• Spider Gag (Bâillon Araignée) — La barre d'écartement, ou "spreader bar", est un dispositif de bondage utilisé pour maintenir les membres d'un soumis écartés.
• Spit Play (Jeux de salive) — Saliva is the most primary of fluids, the simplest mark of possession. It's not an act of cleanliness, but of territory.
• Struggle Fuck — "Struggle Fuck" is a capture fantasy. It's a scenario where the struggle is the most powerful aphrodisiac.
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• Surrender — Surrender is not a defeat; it's the moment you stop fighting against your own nature and consciously offer the keys to your soul.
• Tickle Torture Definition — Tickle torture is a devastating psychological weapon. It bypasses all your defenses to attack you where you are most vulnerable: your own reflexes.
• Total Encasement — Total Encasement is the ultimate experience of objectification. It's not about being locked in a cage or a room, but about seeing one's own body become the prison.
• Total Power Exchange (TPE) — TPE is not a Saturday night game. It's a life.
• Tournante — In gay and bareback slang, the term "tournante" refers to a sexual plan where one person (usually passive) has sexual intercourse successively with several active partners.
• Trash Plan (Plan Crade) — The trash plan, or 'plan crade', is a sexual encounter that explores the limits of disgust and provocation.
• Violet Wand BDSM — The Violet Wand is an emblematic instrument in the world of BDSM and electrostimulation. Far from being a mere gadget, it is a sophisticated device that transforms electricity into a form of erotic art, capable of producing a range of sensations from delicate tingling to intense electrical bites.
• Water Sports (Jeux Humides) — Water Sports are the breaking of an ultimate taboo. It's where intimacy becomes so total that it embraces even what the body rejects.
• Waxplay (Candle Wax Play) — Waxplay, or candle wax play, is simple and direct: hot candle wax is poured onto your skin.