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Possession: Definition, Feeling of Belonging, and Role of the Slave in Gay SM

Definition : Possession is not a feeling, it's a fact. It's the moment when the concept of "you" ceases to exist, to be replaced by the concept of "theirs".

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Vocabulary of BDSM Practices, Humiliation & Degradation
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What is Possession?

Possession is not a feeling, it’s a fact. It’s the moment when the concept of “you” ceases to exist, to be replaced by the concept of “theirs”. It’s an annexation of your soul that precedes that of your body.

How does the feeling of belonging manifest?

It begins with the gaze. The moment you stop seeing your Master as another human being, and you start seeing them as your center of gravity, your sole and unique truth.

Then it settles in your mind. Their will replaces yours. You no longer have your own desires, only the desire to anticipate theirs. Your brain is reprogrammed to serve them.

It then becomes physical. Your body no longer belongs to you. It is their thing, their tool, their territory. Every square inch of your skin is their property. It’s the feeling of being a true slave, a property.

How does the Master mark their Possession?

They mark their territory. A bite on the shoulder, bruises on the thighs, scratches on the back. These are not wounds, they are signatures, visible reminders of their passage and your belonging.

But external marks fade. True possession, the one that lasts, is internal. It is done through invasion, through occupation.

Possession in the Gay SM context:

The act of taking you bare is the act of possession par excellence. It is the removal of the last barrier between their flesh and yours. It is a declaration that says: “There is no longer any separation between us. You are an extension of me.”

The moment they empty themselves into your cum receptacle is the culmination, the transfer of ownership. Their cum plan is not just a bodily fluid; it is a symbolic substance, a part of themselves that they deposit within you, even more so if their cum load is substantial.